Hmm..its a hard one this.
Once I have got over the you must be from the 'North' and therefore a Punjabi discussion.
No I am not, indeed I am Kashmiri - the northern most of Northern states.
Conversation moves swiftly on to - Hindu or Muslim?
I do sometimes wonder if I responded by saying BOTH, where the flowchart of questions would go.
Hindu - Go to Q 4 - do your parents still live there?
Tempting answer - do you not read the newspapers?
This moves to Q 6 - How come your roots lie in Lahore? Well..a lot many Indians moved from there in 1947..my grandparents were one of those many. (Tempting question do you not read?Newspapers perhaps?)
Do you speak Kashmiri? No, but I can say things you would not want to hear. And yes I shall get what you say in Kashmiri next!
Do you have family in Kashmir? The answer being no, but yes I have friends over there.
So do you want to go back? Bearing in mind I did not live there going back is a strange question, right?
Yes I am Kashmiri by birth..but the roots to the place have been lost, replaced, revisited and they seem to be fading.
However what worries me is the fact that few of us, want to go back or even want to think about it.